The Realities of Mom Life: Why Sometimes It’s Okay to Just Survive


Hey moms, let’s talk. We all know the glossy, picture-perfect version of motherhood that gets plastered all over social media. You know the one: clean houses, homemade meals, smiling kids, and moms who seem to have it all together. But let’s be real—most days, it’s a struggle just to survive. And you know what? That’s okay.

Mornings in our house are a circus. From the moment the alarm goes off, it’s a mad dash to get everyone out the door. There are tantrums over breakfast choices, lost shoes, and the eternal struggle of getting kids to brush their teeth (watch our viral reel about this!). Sometimes, just getting everyone dressed and in the car feels like a monumental achievement. If you’ve ever had to bribe your kid with a cookie just to put on pants, you’re not alone.

We’ve all seen the supermom stereotype—the one who juggles a career, keeps a spotless home, and still finds time to bake cookies from scratch. But let’s get one thing straight: perfection is a myth. It’s okay if your house looks like a tornado hit it or if you had to order takeout for the third time this week. We’re all doing our best, and that’s enough.

I used to feel guilty about taking time for myself. The endless to-do list made it seem impossible. But I’ve realized that self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Whether it’s a quiet cup of coffee in the morning, a quick workout, or just locking the bathroom door for five minutes of peace, these little moments of self-care can make a huge difference. We need to recharge to be the best moms we can be.

One thing that often goes unrecognized is the invisible labor we do as moms. It’s the mental load of keeping track of everyone’s schedules, the emotional work of comforting our kids, and the endless planning and organizing that goes into running a household. It’s exhausting, and it’s okay to acknowledge that.

Give yourself credit for all the unseen work you do every day!

Despite the chaos, there are those little moments that make it all worthwhile. The spontaneous hugs, the infectious giggles, and the quiet moments of connection. It’s important to cherish these moments and remind ourselves why we do what we do. Sometimes, the best memories are made in the midst of the mess.

One thing I’ve learned is that it’s okay to ask for help. Whether it’s leaning on your partner, family, friends, or even finding an online community of fellow moms, support is crucial. We weren’t meant to do this alone. Sharing your struggles and hearing “me too” from another mom can be incredibly validating and comforting.

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Motherhood is messy, unpredictable, and often overwhelming. But it’s also beautiful, rewarding, and filled with moments of pure joy. It’s about embracing the imperfection and giving ourselves grace. There will be days when we feel like we’ve got it all together and days when we’re just trying to make it to bedtime. Both are okay.

So, here’s to the moms who are just surviving. To the ones who are doing their best, even when it doesn’t feel like enough. Remember, you’re not alone. We’re all in this together, navigating the highs and lows of motherhood. It’s okay to just survive sometimes, and it’s okay to strive for more when you’re ready. Let’s support each other, embrace the chaos, and celebrate the small victories. Because at the end of the day, we’re all just trying to raise happy, healthy kids while keeping a little bit of our sanity intact.

And that’s more than enough!

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